Are You Dating an Undercover Cop?
One victim's perseverance demonstrates that the apparatus of secrecy can be forced into transparency
Kate Wilson’s story pulls the veil back on SpyCops, showing how a love affair was weaponized for state surveillance and how a decade‑long legal fight finally forced the UK’s Met Police to disclose its playbook and apologize to one of many victims.
Kate Wilson’s story
In 2003, Kate Wilson was on the front line of the anti‑G8 protests in Scotland. While campaigning, she met “Mark Stone,” a fellow activist who seemed to share her politics, her tactics, and even her personal history. Over the next two years, the pair lived together and attended family gatherings together—including Kate’s grandmother’s birthday. They built a relationship that appeared genuine.
But in 2010, the illusion shattered. Friends told Kate that “Mark Stone” never existed; he was, in fact, undercover officer Mark Kennedy. Kennedy had been embedded to sabotage an activist operation targeting a coal‑power plant that Kate was involved in. Mark rang the alarm days before the raid, foiling the plans of 113 protesters. It became the largest preemptive political arrest in modern British history.
During a talk at the 2015 Chaos Communication Camp, Kate detailed the extent of the deception. Kennedy was monitored in real time from an operations center. His overtime pay covered the nights he spent with her.
Listen to her chilling words on stage:
“There was a command structure that decided whether I was going to have dinner with my boyfriend that night.”
Kennedy even fabricated a troubled childhood despite the fact that his parents were still together. Emotional manipulation is a key strategy in the undercover handbook.
The Legal Battle
After the revelation, Kate filed a claim against the Metropolitan Police for the breach of her human rights. The force initially refused to release any material about the operation. Undeterred, she pursued a ten‑year litigation campaign. At first, her legal work was supported by an all-female legal team, but the funding dried up as the case dragged on. So Kate left her job as a nurse to represent herself in court.
Her sacrifice paid off.
In 2023, the court ordered the Met to hand over more than 5,000 pages of investigation files. The documents confirmed that the police had deliberately used romantic intimacy as a strategic tool, violating Kate’s privacy and emotional autonomy.
Kate has now distilled her experience into a book, Disclosure: Unraveling the SpyCops Files, which combines the released documents with personal testimony.

Why This Matters
Kate’s victory is a rare beacon in a field that remains largely unregulated. Kate isn’t the only victim; there are seven other female victims with cases against the Met, and comparable scandals are quietly bubbling up in other countries like Germany.
To help others detect covert operatives, the Undercover Research Group published a practical guide, Was My Friend a SpyCop? – A Guide to Investigating Suspicion. The booklet offers a checklist of 15 questions that individuals can use to assess whether a close associate may be an undercover agent. The guide stresses an open‑minded, collective approach—doing the investigation as a group reduces the risk of isolation and retaliation.

We Deserve Better
Undercover officers routinely ignore basic ethical constraints:
- Illicit conduct—They may commit crimes to protect their cover.
- Sexual exploitation—Intimate relationships are often weaponized for intelligence.
- Lying under oath—They are trained to deny police status even when confronted directly.
Kate Wilson’s perseverance demonstrates that the apparatus of secrecy can be forced into transparency. Her story should serve as both a warning and a call to action for activists, journalists, and anyone involved in grassroots movements. We celebrate Kate for her strength and courage to fight.
This is a segment from #TBOT Show Episode 15. Watch the full episode here!

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